Together we begin
Riddhima & Sagar
DECEMBER 3-5 · 2026
Tulum, Mexico


Our Story

HOW WE MET

Our story started like most with a swipe right on a dating app. However, on our first date, Riddhima ran "a little" behind schedule. And by "a little", we mean three hours. While a last-minute trauma page kept her busy at the hospital, Sagar was convinced he had been ghosted. Lucky for us both, he had a friend in medicine who told him to wait it out.

Sagar waited. Riddhima sprinted to make it. But eventually, what was meant to be a 30 minute conversation turned into 3 hours of discovering shared values and interests, from travel, to food, to what we think is cinematic and musical excellence. Years later, Sagar's friends are still shocked that he found a girl who loves Zac Efron's Baywatch, listens to Pitbull on repeat, and dressed up as Mermaid Man and Barnacle Boy with him for Halloween.

THE PROPOSAL

The proposal was a total surprise. So much so that Riddhima tried canceling her trip to Chicago because "the washing machine isn't working just right". Unfortunately, Sagar's hints to wear something nice didn't register either. Nevertheless, her oversized jacket and beanie stayed on, the ring came out, and it was the best "yes" either of them could have imagined.

THE PATH TO TULUM

Throughout our relationship, we've committed to improbable travel on a residency schedule. Whether it was pulling off an 8 day trip to Japan or enjoying Paris while fighting the flu, we've loved exploring the world together. So much so that we can't wait to bring you all to Tulum with us and our families!

We love feeding our loved ones (aka: Sagar cooks while Riddhima hosts) and we're always searching for inspiration. We take a cooking class everywhere we go, with the ones in Oaxaca and Mexico City being our favorites so far. As some of our friends say, "Oaxacan cheese has become Sagar's entire personality". Come hungry to the wedding weekend - we have been constructing the worldly menu of our dreams!

Riddhima & Sagar
Hawaii
Riddhima & Sagar
The Proposal
Riddhima & Sagar
Paris 2025

The Weekend

01
Evening One
Welcome Dinner
December 3, 20267:00 PM
Conrad Tulum Riviera Maya
Attire
Whatever you feel comfortable wearing! We know most of you will have recently traveled in and hope this is a relaxing way to start the weekend!
02
Day Two
Haldi / Pithi
December 4, 2026Morning
Conrad Tulum Riviera Maya
Attire
Indian or Western attire in yellow/saffron or cream/white. Prepare to get turmeric on you!
03
Evening Two
Sangeet / Garba
December 4, 2026Evening
Conrad Tulum Riviera Maya
Attire
Indian formal attire in vibrant colors (and something you can dance in!)
04
Day Three
Wedding Ceremony
December 5, 2026Morning
Conrad Tulum Riviera Maya
Attire
Indian formal attire (please avoid pink, red, and black)
05
Evening Three
Cocktail Hour & Reception
December 5, 2026Evening
Conrad Tulum Riviera Maya
Attire
Black tie (lehengas/saris or gowns for women; sherwanis or suits for men)
What to Wear

The Lookbook

This isn't a rulebook, just a guide — so everyone, whether you've worn a lehenga your whole life or you're pulling one on for the first time, can show up in something they love.

A Few Notes on Color

Wear all the color you want — the more, the better. Just a few gentle guardrails: skip bridal red head-to-toe. Red as an accent or a border is fully in bounds. And please keep head-to-toe black out of the wedding ceremony.

bridal red (head-to-toe) black at the ceremony

We've gotten some questions about what to buy for each event. Generally there aren't hard rules of any kind. If ours is the first Indian wedding you're attending and you'd like more guidance, we've offered some ideas below.

Before You Pack

We'll be in the Caribbean — low 80s by day, cooler and breezy by the water at night. You'll want breathable fabrics and a light shawl or layer for air-conditioned halls and evening sea air. Ceremonies run across grass, sand, and stone, so pack shoes you can move in. And mixing, re-wearing, and re-styling pieces across events is very much welcome.

The First Night
Welcome Dinner
Thursday · Evening

A good dinner with people we love. Dress like it's a summer evening out — not black tie, not a backyard barbecue.

For the Men

A good shirt and trousers.Linen or cotton, sleeves you can roll. Wear a jacket if you'd like, but definitely skip the tie.

For the Women

A sundress, a midi, or nice separates.A jumpsuit works too. Bring a layer in case of a heavy ocean breeze.

Not too casualskip shorts & flip-flops
Not too formalyou're still on an oceanfront

Right in the middle: dressed enough for a dinner with friends, easy enough to enjoy the night.

The setting
Outdoors and warm, cooling into the evening. Breathable fabrics win.
Your feet
Comfortable shoes — nothing that sinks into sand.
The Turmeric Morning
Haldi
Friday · Daytime

Bright, sunlit, and a little chaotic. Turmeric will get on your clothes and they will be stained — probably irreparably.

The Palette — Whites, Yellows, Oranges, Marigold
For the Men

A simple cotton kurta, or a bright linen shirt.Light and easy to move in.

For the Women

A light salwar suit, a sharara, or a bright sundress.Anything cotton and cheerful.

The one rule
Wear nothing you love. Whatever you show up in will end the day stained.
Leave at home
Good watches, leather, and fine jewelry. Turmeric ruins them. Bring pieces you won't mind washing (and maybe scrubbing).
Color
White, yellow, mustard, orange, and anything in between.
The Night of Music
Sangeet / Garba
Friday · Evening

Music, dancing, performances. Go bold, go traditional, and wear something you can dance in.

The Palette — Bold and Colorful
For the Men

A kurta with a Nehru jacket, sherwani, or a bandhgala.Go all in with a sherwani if you like.

For the Women

A lehenga, an Anarkali, or an Indo-Western gown.Sequins and shimmers shine here.

Move test
You'll dance. Choose something you can actually move in.
Your feet
Again, you'll dance — go for a shoe that's stable.
Need an outfit?
Whether it's your first kurta or your fiftieth saree, if you'd like help sourcing something, we've got shop recommendations at the end.
The Ceremony
The Wedding
Saturday · Daytime

A traditional event — and so likely the most traditional you'll dress all weekend.

Anything colorful, without an overdose of bridal colors (reds, pinks)
For the Men

A sherwani, a bandhgala, or a formal kurta.Not doing Indian wear? A colorful daytime suit — not a plain dark one.

For the Women

A silk saree, a lehenga, or a structured Anarkali.Or a vibrant maxi. Cover shoulders and knees for the ceremony.

Colors
If you're buying a new piece, we'd suggest something bright — think daytime colors.
The Last Celebration
Reception
Saturday · Night

Formal attire. The one night the palette goes dark and sharp.

Formal Eveningwear — Black & Jewel Tones
For the Men

A suit.Go dark — this is the night to dress up.

For the Women

A floor-length gown — or Indian formalwear.A sequinned saree or Indo-Western gown is perfect here.

The feel
A night to look sharp and party hard.
A Little Help
Where to Shop
For Guests Buying from the States

Never bought Indian clothes before? Don't overthink it. These ship to the US, cover every event, and most will stitch to your measurements.

Order by mid-October at the latest

The wedding is in December, and good pieces take time to size and ship — sooner if you want any tailoring done.

Kalki Fashion

Clear size guides and a dedicated US site. Strong for showstopper Sangeet and reception pieces. kalkifashion.com

Pernia's Pop-Up Shop

Couture-level, ships worldwide, custom-fit. Much of it is made-to-order — order early. perniaspopupshop.com

Aza Fashions

4–6 day delivery (advertised — don't depend on it), covers most duties, a "ships in 24 hours" line for latecomers. azafashions.com

G3 Fashion

The one to check if you're ordering way later than you meant to. Full men's and women's range. g3fashion.com

On sizing
Indian sizing runs small — when unsure, size up and have it tailored locally.
Stitching
Ask about lead times before you buy; international transit adds weeks.
Second opinion?
Send us a link before you commit — we're happy to help you land on something.

Come colorful, come comfortable, and come ready to celebrate with us.

Riddhima & Sagar

Travel &
Stay

Getting to Tulum

The two nearest airports are Cancun (CUN) and Tulum (TQO). While our wedding is in Tulum, the Tulum airport is about an hour from the hotel, and the Cancun airport is about an hour and 20 minutes away.

TQO has a significantly smaller volume of flights inbound, so while there is no issue if you arrive via TQO, we have found it easier during our planning trips to fly through CUN.

Closer to the event, we will ask for your travel details to help ensure a smooth transfer from airport to the hotel.*

*As long as you're arriving on Wednesday or Thursday, Dec 2 or 3, and departing on Dec 6. More incentive to stay for the whole party, not that you needed it.

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Where to Stay

We have secured a room block with the Conrad Tulum Riviera Maya. We have been dreaming of having all our guests under the same roof so no matter the hour of the day, we can easily find time to celebrate together.

The room block is available until July 31. If you are considering booking a hotel different from our venue, please reach out to us (SPRAwedding@gmail.com) prior to booking so we can work with you to find an option that works!

Book your room here

The room block expires July 31, 2026. Book early, please!

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Visas & Entry

US and UK citizens do not require a visa. Indian passport holders, particularly if you are attending the earlier family-only events in the USA — please check requirements early.

Mexico issues a tourist card on arrival, valid up to 180 days. Keep your copy for departure.

Questions? Email us at SPRAwedding@gmail.com and we will connect you with resources.

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What to Expect

Tulum in December: 25–30°C (78–86°F), low humidity, end of hurricane season. Pack light breathable fabrics and sunscreen.

All events are partially or fully outdoors. Dressy sandals encouraged as we will often be transitioning between sand, grass, and concrete.

The best month to visit Tulum. You're coming.

Gifts and registry

No gifts! You are flying to a different country to celebrate our marriage and your presence is more than enough!

If you bring a gift, you will be flying it back home, too.

Will you
join us?

Please respond by June 30, 2026. We are so excited to celebrate with you!

We can't wait to celebrate with you ✦

Your RSVP has been received. We will be in touch as the date approaches.

With so much love,
Riddhima & Sagar